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Mediation information and assessment meetings (MIAMs)

What is a MIAM?

MIAM stands for Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting.
It is the first meeting you will have with a mediator, usually on your own, before any joint mediation begins.

What happens at a MIAM?

At the MIAM, you will meet with a qualified family mediator to:

  • Explain the issues you would like to resolve following your separation
  • Learn how mediation works and what the process involves
  • Consider whether mediation is safe and suitable for your situation
  • Receive information about all available options, including alternatives to court
  • Be signposted to other services or support if helpful

 

It is an opportunity to ask questions and decide what feels right for you – there is no pressure to continue.

Do I have to attend a MIAM?

Mediation itself is voluntary, so you are not required to proceed with mediation.

However, in England and Wales, most people who wish to apply to court about children or finances must first show they have attended a MIAM. This requirement exists because courts encourage families to try resolving matters in a quicker, less costly, and less confrontational way if possible.

What if my former partner won't attend a MIAM?

Your former partner cannot be forced to take part in mediation.
However, many people are willing to attend a MIAM to explore their options once the process is explained.

If appropriate and safe, the mediator may contact them to invite them to attend.
In some cases, the court can direct a person to attend a MIAM before progressing proceedings.

Are there any exemptions to needing to attend a MIAM before court?

Yes. You may not need to attend a MIAM in certain circumstances, for example:

  • Evidence of domestic abuse
  • Child protection concerns or risk of harm
  • Other specific exemptions set out in the court application

 

A solicitor can advise you if an exemption applies to your situation.

What happens if one of you decides at the MIAM that mediation isn't right for your situation?

This can happen. If for any reason either of you chooses not to try mediation (or one of the other alternatives to court), or if the mediator decides that mediation isn’t suitable for you, the mediator will sign a part of your court application to say mediation has been explored but is not suitable at the current time.

How much does a MIAM cost?

Like many things, it depends on the person or organisation you are using, and prices may vary around the country.  The cheapest isn’t always the best.  Do make sure your chosen mediator is qualified to conduct MIAMs – these are mediators who have qualified as Family Mediation Council accredited mediators, known as FMCA mediators.

For people who are financially eligible, public funding (legal aid) is still available from certain mediation services.  A mediator from one of the services which offer legal aid will assess eligibility at the MIAM.  This is means-tested and depends on both your capital and income.  You can get an idea yourself whether you might be eligible by checking here.  If you qualify for public funding, the mediator will explain to you what costs are covered, both for you and your former partner if they attend a MIAM or mediation.