Family Mediation Standards Board approved foundation training course

FMA Foundation Training Programme 2025 (London)

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 17th- 19th September 2025 (Wednesday to Friday)

6th-8th October 2025 (Monday to Wednesday)

6th & 7th November (Thursday and Friday)

£2,550 plus VAT

*Your training fee includes your first year of membership of FMA. FMA then charges a reduced rate membership fee for the following two years (while you are preparing your portfolio).

Applying for the FMA's Foundation Training Course

We recommend applying at least 6 weeks before your chosen course starts; to give us enough time to process your application and you to prepare and make arrangements, if successful in obtaining a place.

All candidates should submit:

When an application is successful, you will be notified by email and offered a place on the next foundation training course, which you will need to accept within a specified period of time and pay the course fees etc.

If an application is unsuccessful, full feedback will be given. Where possible, we will also provide advice on alternative training courses or work experience that may improve any subsequent application for family mediation training.

We are very proud of our Family Mediation Standards Board approved foundation training course and of the many wonderful mediators who have trained with us using our robust model of interdisciplinary mediation.

“I can’t praise the FMA enough for the way my training was carried out, and all that I have learnt from it. My trainers, Ruth and Helen, were absolutely brilliant, and the people in my group were all so amazing that we’re all still in touch.”

Our course introduces the theory and practice of family mediation as follows:

In addition, the course looks at:

The FMA training has really opened my eyes as to how difficult a task a Mediator has, and also as to how much more we can all do in our respective professions to champion out of court dispute resolutions. My training has been very hardcore, very interactive, via zoom and in person, and it was all really well organised. I really appreciated all the roleplays as scary as they seemed at first, as they really helped me gain the confidence and practice to deal with real people. I walked out of the first training session, already having a different mindset – wanting to encourage other legal professionals to learn more about mediation and its benefits.

PROTOCOL ON THE SELECTION PROCESS

Background

There are many reasons why you might choose to attend the FMA Mediation Foundation Course – to acquire new skills and processes, to understand mediation and its place, or to assist you in your current workplace. We know, however, that most of you will attend in the hope that you will progress to practice as a family mediator.

This document is therefore designed to give further guidance to potential trainees and their referees as to the selection process for the FMA Foundation Training Programme (Foundation Training).  It is written to provide some clarity and transparency around:

  • the selection criteria i.e. what we are looking for in potential candidates for the Foundation Training;
  • why a candidate might be unsuccessful in their initial application to attend the Foundation Training;
  • how we support struggling trainees during the Foundation Training; and
  • why a trainee might not receive their Certificate of Completion at the end of the Foundation Training.

Selection Criteria

There is already quite a bit of information on the FMA and FMC websites on the qualifications, skills and experience required to become a family mediator.  We ask that potential trainees should be:

  • qualified for at least three years in either of:
    • family law, social work, social science or therapy/counselling professions,
    • where 50% or more of their workload has been within family law or working with families and/or couples;
  • educated to degree level or professional equivalent;
  • able to demonstrate an ability to work with conflicts and to manage interpersonal relationships at a professional level;
  • able to demonstrate an ability to communicate fluently with clients during mediation sessions and to produce high-quality written documents; and
  • able to work with, value and learn from other professionals.

For those potential trainees who do not have the requisite professional background there is also the ‘discretionary’ route to training.  This involves a panel of Foundation Trainers considering the candidate’s application on an individual basis, to see whether they have the right skills and understanding.  The panel is looking for candidates who show that they are able to:

  • respond sensitively to the range of situations that families going through separation and divorce may face;
  • provide structured assistance to those families and be able to work with, value and learn from other professionals;
  • demonstrate a commitment to increasing their knowledge and skills, as needed to be a family mediator, beyond their attendance at the Foundation Training;
  • process and deliver information and communicate fluently with clients during mediation sessions and in any follow up communications and be able to produce high-quality written documents;
  • show that they have given careful consideration to what follows on from the successful completion of the Foundation Training (e.g. how will they obtain work, where might they work, how they will continue their professional development etc.); and
  • evidence an awareness of the ongoing obligations and associated costs of practicing as a family mediator following the successful completion of the Foundation Training.

It is very important to have a family mediation profession which is open to the widest range of people possible.   Our goal is to work with every candidate and trainee to explore with them what might be needed for their participation, while ultimately ensuring quality standards for all families with whom we work. 

Why a candidate might be unsuccessful in their initial application to attend Foundation Training

Whilst it is not possible to provide a comprehensive list of reasons why a candidate might be unsuccessful, the starting point is an inability to meet some or all of the selection criteria.  The FMA also reserves the right to refuse a candidate who is not of good standing or who has a criminal record, or whose professional career has included any issue calling into question their professional competence. 

 

There are also a number of contra indicators that can sometimes be relevant such as:

  • a current or recent personal experience which might impact on a candidate’s ability to be objective about the mediation process and the needs of other families or makes it difficult for them to engage in open discussions about divorce and separation during the course;
  • an experience which might mean that the content of the Foundation Training is not suitable for the candidate and might be too stressful at the current time.

How we support struggling trainees during the Foundation Training

We recognise that the Foundation Training is a very intense course, requiring a significant commitment in terms of time, investment and personal reflection.   The Foundation Trainers make it a priority to work with the trainees to help them successfully complete the programme.  Where a trainee is struggling the Foundation Trainers will work alongside them to provide tailored support.  This is likely to include a number of different elements including:

  • one-to-one support and feedback sessions as and when requested by either the Foundation Trainers or trainee;
  • guided and written feedback on any written work and on all role plays observed;
  • signposting to useful resources that might provide the requisite support;
  • an ability to pause the Foundation Training and resume it at a more suitable time;
  • an open and listening ear to trainees and constant observance of group dynamics to ensure it is a safe environment for all.

Why a trainee might not receive their Certificate of Completion of the Foundation Training

We select our trainees under the above criteria with the expectation that they are willing and able to successfully complete the Foundation Training.  It is a professional programme so there is a level of maturity, self-motivation, engagement and commitment required.  In certain circumstances a Certificate of Completion may be withheld. This happens following a detailed assessment by a panel of Foundation Trainers who together decide whether or not the trainee is ready to take up the role and practice as a mediator.  Some examples of why the Certificate of Completion might be withheld include circumstances where the trainee has: 

  • failed to attend and/ or fully engage in all 8 days of the Foundation Training;
  • failed to produce written assignments and Outcome Documents of the requisite standard, either initially or following resubmission;
  • not participated in the many group discussions both within and outside of the taught sessions;
  • not fully engaged in all aspects of the Foundation Training to include the many role plays and class discussions;
  • failed to demonstrate to a satisfactory standard all the key areas of the FMC Professional Competence Standards within the classroom/simulated environment in both children and property/ finance matters;
  • not shown a depth of knowledge or understanding of the mediation principles and process;
  • has not yet demonstrated the necessary mediation skills and techniques expected of foundation trainees following the 8 days of the Foundation Training;
  • refused to repeat any days of the course or written assignments as required by the Foundation Trainers;
  • exhibited such behaviour that the Foundation Trainers do not consider it safe or appropriate to allow the trainee to transition to the role of family mediator at this tim

Where the Certificate of Completion is withheld, the Foundation Trainers will work with the trainee to provide advice and a plan of action as to what is needed to progress their mediation career, if that is what the trainee wants.  We recognise it will be disappointing for a trainee but the FMA is subject to standards imposed by the Family Mediation Standards Board and must ensure that anyone transitioning to the role of mediator has achieved and demonstrated the required level of skills and understanding.  

The current course content is as follows: an eight-day course set over three modules, with the opportunity to observe or co-mediate before completion of your training.

Three Days Intensive Training followed by a written assignment.

Three Days Intensive Training followed by two written assignments.

Trainees who successfully complete Module II and the two written assignments can begin co-mediating and may apply for membership of the Family Mediators Association before completing Module III. Trainees can then gain some practice, either by way of observation or co-mediation whilst training and can incorporate that invaluable experience into their learning.

Two Days Intensive Training. The trainers tailor the content of the final two days to meet what they believe the training needs of the trainees are, following successful completion of the first two Modules and the written assignments.

The course is full on and relies on the participation of the whole group. Anyone missing even part of a day will be affected – subjects are not covered twice, and material missed cannot easily be made up.

FMA will withhold the training certificate if you do not complete your course in its entirety.  So, you should be sure you can commit fully to the whole process and all dates.

Courses have up to 12 participants with a team of experienced and qualified family mediation trainers (ratio of 1 trainer to 6 participants).  FMA uses a range of teaching techniques and learning aids; lecture, video, workshop, pair and group exercises, role-plays, case discussion, individual & group presentations and distance learning.  Trainers encourage trainees to develop their skills, knowledge, aptitude and understanding of the mediation process and theory via interactive role-play and exercises designed to give a full understanding of the various models of mediation practice.

By the end of the course, trainees will be familiar with the theories and principles of mediation and should be able to decide how to apply them in the context of different styles, techniques, skills and the practical process of mediation.

FMA Foundation Training Course